Commonly Overlooked Factor: The other party wants something out of it too!
A want can only be fulfilled by another persons' giving.
Throw a piece of food to a monkey, it eats it.
A second monkey will come along, and you throw a piece to that monkey too.
The first monkey ate finish his piece, and wants more...
You feed it; And more monkeys start appearing.
You feed them all..
You soon run out of food and have nothing else to give.!
And...
The monkeys want more food!
Seeing that you are not throwing them a piece,
they attack you relentlessly...
Seem familiar?
Monkeys. We're friends with so many of them!
